I am a strong, grounded man, some see me as a Author, Public Speaker, Healer, Guide, Educator and Certified Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner based in Stellenbosch, South Africa.
What are you serving the people who sit at your table? I have been thinking about something that has become increasingly profound to me: perhaps every relationship we have is a meal we share. People come into our lives, and in one way or another, they sit at our table. Some stay for a short …
The Sadness I Carry There is a sadness that some of us carry that we cannot always explain. It is not necessarily connected to one particular event. It does not always have a name. Sometimes we cannot point to a moment in our lives and say, That is where it began. We simply know that …
Becoming a Safe Place Within Yourself Perhaps the safest place you will ever find is the place you create inside yourself. There is something fascinating about human beings. So much of our lives are spent looking for a safe place. We look for a safe home. A safe relationship. A safe career. Safe people. Financial …
You Trigger You There is a profound moment in life when you begin to see something that changes your relationship with almost everything: No one triggers you. You trigger you. At first, this can sound strange—even offensive. You might think, “Of course they triggered me. Look at what they did. Look at what they said. …
Most People Don’t Think. They Don’t Feel. They Just Judge. There is a painful truth about human beings that we don’t always want to admit: Most people don’t really think. They react. Most people don’t really feel. They assume. And far too often, they don’t seek to understand. They simply judge. We live in a …
A Letter to Louise Swart of Bothaville, Free State, South Africa Dear Louise, In the beginning of relationships, we find many reasons to stay. We see the beauty in each other. We discover the things that make us laugh, the things that excite us, the dreams we share, and the moments that make us believe …
Ek Eer Jou, Louise Louise, Ek het ’n reis saam met jou gehad. ’n Reis wat vir my baie meer beteken het as wat ek destyds kon verstaan. Vandag kyk ek anders daarna. Met ’n sagter hart. Met meer begrip. Met minder behoefte om dinge te verklaar, reg te maak of vas te hou. Ek …