I am a strong, grounded man, some see me as a Author, Public Speaker, Healer, Guide, Educator and Certified Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner based in Stellenbosch, South Africa.
How Should a Man Treat a Widow Who Has Been Deeply Wounded? There is a profound difference between understanding a woman’s wounds and excusing her behaviour. When a man enters a relationship with a widow, he may not simply be entering a relationship with one woman and her present circumstances. He may be entering a …
Before You Enter Her Life: Know What You Are Walking Into A warning for the man who becomes involved with a woman carrying a complicated relational history There is something men need to understand before entering a serious relationship with a woman who has a long and complicated history of relationships and sexual liaisons. The …
Recognizing unhealthy attachment patterns in someone else can help you understand their behavior, but it doesn’t obligate you to tolerate harmful treatment. Attachment styles explain behavior; they do not excuse it. The healthiest response is to combine compassion with clear boundaries. 1. See the person, not just the attachment style Avoid labeling someone as “an …
What a Person with a Strong Avoidant Attachment Style Often Doesn’t Want A person with a strong avoidant attachment style often lives by one unspoken rule: “If I don’t depend on anyone, no one can hurt me.” This belief becomes the foundation of how they relate to other people. As a result, they often don’t …
People with a strong avoidant attachment style often do not intend to hurt those around them. Their emotional distance is usually a learned survival strategy, developed long before the current relationship. Yet, despite their intentions, the impact on those closest to them can be profound. This is why deep awareness is so important. An avoidant …
Emotionally unavailable women will damage you. Not dramatically. Not all at once. Slowly, quietly, and deeply. You only understand this after you give your heart to someone who cannot meet you emotionally and never intended to try. Stay away from women who treat affection like a choice instead of a responsibility. Stay away from women …
When it comes to the good character of a woman, there are many traits that are often valued and respected. Here are some of them: 1. *Empathy and compassion*: A woman with a good character is often someone who is kind, caring, and understanding towards others. She can put herself in other people’s shoes and …