I am a strong, grounded man, some see me as a Author, Public Speaker, Healer, Guide, Educator and Certified Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner based in Stellenbosch, South Africa.
What Does It Look Like When They Choose Us? And what does it look like when they don’t? There is a question we don’t ask often enough in our relationships: Are they choosing us? We ask whether they love us. We ask whether they care. We ask whether they are happy with us. We ask …
We all have a table. It is not necessarily a physical table, but a place in our lives where we allow people to come close. It is where relationships are formed, conversations happen, trust is exchanged, influence is shared, and parts of who we are become visible. But as we grow, evolve and change, the …
If You Are Going to Be There, Be There There is a simple truth about relationships that we sometimes make far more complicated than it needs to be: If someone is important to you, show up. If you are emotionally available, be emotionally available. Respond to the message. Return the call. Ask the question. Listen …
What are you serving the people who sit at your table? I have been thinking about something that has become increasingly profound to me: perhaps every relationship we have is a meal we share. People come into our lives, and in one way or another, they sit at our table. Some stay for a short …
Sometimes the most important question in a relationship is not, “What do they say?” but “What chair are they offering me?” There is something I have come to understand about human interaction that has changed the way I look at relationships. Every time we interact with another person, they are, in some way, offering us …
When Do We Walk Away? Two Conversations About Knowing When It Is Time to Leave There are conversations we have with ourselves. And then there are conversations we have with the one person we trust enough to tell the truth to. Sometimes we don’t need somebody to make the decision for us. We need somebody …
When “I Am Done” Becomes the Beginning A reflection on toxic relationships, rebuilding yourself, and finding a stronger foundation There are some things we read on social media that we scroll past. And then there are words that make us stop. Recently, I read the words of a woman who was 39, going through a …