I am a strong, grounded man, some see me as a Author, Public Speaker, Healer, Guide, Educator and Certified Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner based in Stellenbosch, South Africa.
When Her Wounds Become Weapons: Loving a Woman Who Has Been Hurt When a man enters a relationship with a woman who has been abused, traumatised, manipulated, rejected, abandoned or thrown away, he needs to understand that he may not simply be entering a relationship with a person. He may also be entering a relationship …
How Should a Man Treat a Widow Who Has Been Deeply Wounded? There is a profound difference between understanding a woman’s wounds and excusing her behaviour. When a man enters a relationship with a widow, he may not simply be entering a relationship with one woman and her present circumstances. He may be entering a …
The Difference Between Being Loved and Being Convenient There is a big difference between being loved and being kept around. There is another big difference between being valued and being accessed when it is convenient. Sometimes those differences are difficult to see because the relationship may still contain affection, intimacy, beautiful moments, words of love, …
There Is No Separation Between You and Love There comes a moment when you stop searching for love and begin to recognise it. You become aware of it. You tune into it. You feel it. And suddenly, something becomes very clear: Love is not merely something you receive. Love is something you can embody. Something …
The Lie We Were Sold About How We Experience Life In life, we are often sold a very subtle lie. The lie is that we experience life on four separate levels: Mentally. Emotionally. Physically. Spiritually. And then we are encouraged to believe that one or two of these dimensions are enough. “I am a thinker. …
People Will Treat You From Where They Are There is one very specific thing you can learn about life that can make life considerably easier: People will treat you from the place they are in—not necessarily from the place you are in. Their behaviour, their words, their actions, their reactions and the way they respond …
The Amount of Truth You Can Accept Determines the Amount You Can Heal There is a profound relationship between truth, self-awareness, growth, change, and healing. The degree to which a person can grow, evolve, change, and truly heal is in direct proportion to the amount of truth they are willing to accept about themselves. This …