I am a strong, grounded man, some see me as a Author, Public Speaker, Healer, Guide, Educator and Certified Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner based in Stellenbosch, South Africa.
What Does It Look Like When They Choose Us? And what does it look like when they don’t? There is a question we don’t ask often enough in our relationships: Are they choosing us? We ask whether they love us. We ask whether they care. We ask whether they are happy with us. We ask …
When Do We Walk Away? Two Conversations About Knowing When It Is Time to Leave There are conversations we have with ourselves. And then there are conversations we have with the one person we trust enough to tell the truth to. Sometimes we don’t need somebody to make the decision for us. We need somebody …
When “I Am Done” Becomes the Beginning A reflection on toxic relationships, rebuilding yourself, and finding a stronger foundation There are some things we read on social media that we scroll past. And then there are words that make us stop. Recently, I read the words of a woman who was 39, going through a …
Here is the teaching, clean and strong, focused on The Rules of the Fire within The Table or the Fire framework: The Rules of the Fire The Table or the Fire Teaching A Choice You Make in Relationship When There Are Problems What the Fire Represents The fire represents intensity without structure: Passion without containment …
Here is the counterpart teaching, written with the same weight and clarity as The Rules of the Fire, completing the framework: The Rules of the Table The Table or the Fire Teaching A Choice You Can Make in Relationship When There Are Problems What the Table Represents The Table represents order that can hold intensity: …