I am a strong, grounded man, some see me as a Author, Public Speaker, Healer, Guide, Educator and Certified Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner based in Stellenbosch, South Africa.
The Moment We Stop Surviving and Start Living There is an endless resource within us that we often spend our entire lives searching for outside ourselves. We search for love. We search for acceptance. We search for belonging. We search for security, validation, connection and meaning. We look to other people, relationships, careers, possessions and …
Louise Louise was fifty-three years old when she finally asked herself a question she had spent most of her life avoiding: “What if my life isn’t going to change until I change the person I believe I am?” It was not a dramatic moment. There was no thunderstorm. No life-changing phone call. No inspirational music …
The Art of Caring Without Losing Yourself Listen. Care. Trust. Learn. Encourage. Dream. But remain yourself. There is a quiet wisdom hidden in six simple sentences: Listen, but don’t attach. Care, but don’t control. Trust, but don’t depend. Learn, but don’t imitate. Encourage, but don’t push. Dream, but don’t escape. At first glance, these may …
What Does It Look Like When They Choose Us? And what does it look like when they don’t? There is a question we don’t ask often enough in our relationships: Are they choosing us? We ask whether they love us. We ask whether they care. We ask whether they are happy with us. We ask …
When We Overstay Our Welcome There is a moment in life when we know. We may not be able to explain it. We may not have the words for it. Nothing dramatic may have happened. Nobody may have told us to leave. There may not have been an argument, a betrayal, a resignation, or a …
What Is Speaking Through You? There is something fascinating about the human tongue. It is small, yet it can build a relationship, destroy a relationship, comfort a person, humiliate a person, create peace, create conflict, offer hope, or leave someone carrying pain for years. We often think of words as simply words. But our words …
Anna’s Story Anna was thirty-nine years old, and if you looked at her life from the outside, you might have thought she had everything together. She was independent. She worked hard. She had friends. She could take care of herself. She had travelled, built a career, and learned how to survive whatever life placed in …