I am a strong, grounded man, some see me as a Author, Public Speaker, Healer, Guide, Educator and Certified Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner based in Stellenbosch, South Africa.
This is a sacred and sensitive question – because unhealthy attachment to God is rarely named, yet it deeply shapes how people live, love, and suffer. I’ll speak to this with respect, clarity, and depth. When Attachment Replaces Relationship Healthy relationship with God is rooted in trust, love, freedom, and growth. Unhealthy attachment to God …
Knowledge or skill gained from doing, seeing, or feeling things firsthand, or to the events themselves that shape our lives, memories, and character, functioning as both a practical teacher of life. So others experience, see and feel us one that is loving. What must be cultivated in a life so that love is not just …
In 1310, a woman named Marguerite Porete was taken to a stake in the center of Paris. A crowd watched as she was condemned as a heretic. She was burned after she refused to submit or take back her words. Her crime was writing a book. Marguerite Porete came from the County of Hainaut, in …
We do not heal in isolation, and we do not become whole by willpower alone. We heal in relationship. Love, intimacy, and deep connection are not rewards we earn after we are healed – they are the medicine itself. We carry wounds that were formed in connection: being unseen being unsafe being abandoned being misunderstood …
Here is my nine-month deep healing and formation program centered on living and being the Nine Fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22–23). This is not self-improvement, but inner transformation – healing the roots of pain, fear, shame, and separation so the fruit emerges naturally. The rhythm reflects gestation: what is conceived in the spirit is …
Sometimes I wish you could step into my mind and see the world the way I see it when I think of you. My thoughts and heart get very heavy, filled with memories, filled with what ifs, filled with the kind of longing that is so very deep for simple words. There is a quiet …
The most painful shifts a human heart can experience. Moving from being your closest ally, confidant, or even love to becoming a mortal enemy – usually happens through a combination of human psychology, unmet needs, and relational dynamics. Let’s unpack it carefully. 1. Betrayal of Trust The most common catalyst is a perceived or actual …