I am a strong, grounded man, some see me as a Author, Public Speaker, Healer, Guide, Educator and Certified Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner based in Stellenbosch, South Africa.
What Does Love Really Look Like? How love shows up in our relationships, our decisions, and the world around us. Love is one of the most talked-about experiences in the world, yet how often do we stop to ask ourselves what love actually looks like? We talk about loving people. We talk about loving ourselves, …
What Does the World Look Like When Love Is Absent? When connection is replaced by control, generosity becomes a transaction, and fear takes the place of love. What happens when love is absent? Not when people stop talking about love. Not when they stop saying the words, posting the messages, or making promises about how …
What Does Fear Really Look Like? How fear shows up in our relationships, our decisions, our hearts, and the world around us. Fear is one of the most powerful forces shaping human behaviour. Yet we do not always recognise it when we see it. We tend to think of fear as an obvious emotion: somebody …
Eventually, the bill arrives. It may arrive quietly. It may arrive through a conversation you can no longer avoid. It may arrive through a relationship that finally breaks. It may arrive through a health crisis that forces you to reconsider how you have been living. It may arrive through a financial problem. It may arrive …
Love Opens. Fear Closes. And Everything Changes When You Understand the Difference. There is a reason this book matters. It is not simply because love is important, or because fear causes us pain. We already know these things. We have felt the warmth of love and the coldness of fear. We have experienced the freedom …
YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE, BUT YOU ARE NOT GUILTY An uncomfortable truth that could change the way you live your life. There is a statement I believe we need to think about more deeply: You are responsible for what happens in your life. But that does not mean you are guilty of everything that happens to …
The Privilege of Not Sitting Alone Sometimes, the most beautiful gift in life is having someone sit beside you for a little while. When we are children, we understand something about friendship that, somewhere along the way, we seem to forget. Imagine sitting on a little bench, waiting for your favourite friend to arrive. You …