I am a strong, grounded man, some see me as a Author, Public Speaker, Healer, Guide, Educator and Certified Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner based in Stellenbosch, South Africa.
What It Says About Us When We Are Cruel Sometimes the way we treat another person tells us more about ourselves than it ever tells us about them. There is something deeply revealing about cruelty. To intentionally hurt another person, to deliberately humiliate them, diminish them, break them down or cause them pain, requires something …
John — The Day Time Became Real John had always believed he had time. Not consciously. He would never have said it out loud. If someone had asked him, he would probably have said that life was short and that every day mattered. But the way he lived told a different story. He lived as …
When You Stop Needing Everyone to Understand You There comes a point in life when you have to stop asking everyone around you for permission to become who you are meant to be. Because if you continue to measure your vision against the vision of the people around you, you may eventually find yourself living …
The Art of Caring Without Losing Yourself Listen. Care. Trust. Learn. Encourage. Dream. But remain yourself. There is a quiet wisdom hidden in six simple sentences: Listen, but don’t attach. Care, but don’t control. Trust, but don’t depend. Learn, but don’t imitate. Encourage, but don’t push. Dream, but don’t escape. At first glance, these may …
The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse Are Already Within Us We have been taught to imagine the apocalypse as something that happens outside of us. A great catastrophe. A world falling apart. Something coming from somewhere beyond our control. But what if the greatest apocalypse is not something that happens to the world? What if …
The Opposite of Addiction Is Connection Addiction is not always about what we are addicted to. Sometimes, it is about what we are missing. We often look at addiction and ask: Why can’t they just stop? Why do they keep doing this to themselves? Why do they choose the substance, the behaviour, the screen, the …
What Does It Look Like When They Choose Us? And what does it look like when they don’t? There is a question we don’t ask often enough in our relationships: Are they choosing us? We ask whether they love us. We ask whether they care. We ask whether they are happy with us. We ask …