I am a strong, grounded man, some see me as a Author, Public Speaker, Healer, Guide, Educator and Certified Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner based in Stellenbosch, South Africa.
The Stars We Leave Behind The past is not always behind you. Sometimes, the past remains quietly present—not as something we can return to, but as something that continues to shine within us. There are moments in our lives that are so beautiful, so expressive, so full of love and joy, that they leave something …
There is a danger that can quietly enter our lives when we love someone deeply: we can allow our human empathy to override God’s compassion. We see someone hurting, struggling, making mistakes, or experiencing the consequences of their own choices, and our heart responds. We feel their pain. We want to rescue them. We want …
When Love Turns Into Emotional Danger There is something profoundly painful that happens when trust is broken between two people. It is not simply that the relationship changes. The way the two people see each other changes. At one stage, they may have cherished one another. They protected each other’s feelings. They guarded each other’s …
The Healing Power of Love, Intimacy and Service There is something deeply beautiful about the way human beings can heal through healthy connection. I have come to believe that three elements can make an extraordinary difference in our emotional and spiritual wellbeing: A stable relationship. Deep intimacy. And a serving spirit. When these three come …
When We Truly Love Someone How do we know when we truly love somebody? I have been thinking about that question deeply. And I have come to a conclusion that feels both simple and profound: Perhaps we know we truly love someone when our nervous system can relax in their presence. Not because they entertain …
The Daily Give-Back Do One Act of Love, Every Day What if you made a simple commitment to yourself? Every single day, do something kind for something or someone other than yourself. Not for recognition. Not for likes. Not for applause. Not for a photograph. Just because you can. Choose a human being, an animal, …
Live With an Open Heart: Stop Taking Everything Personally I suggest you go through life without taking everything so personally. It sounds simple, but it can completely change the way you experience life. So much of our suffering comes from the stories we create around what other people say and do. Someone doesn’t call us …