I am a strong, grounded man, some see me as a Author, Public Speaker, Healer, Guide, Educator and Certified Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner based in Stellenbosch, South Africa.
When Is It an Achievement and When Is It Just a Phase? Learning to Recognise the Difference Between Temporary Experiences and Lasting Transformation There are moments in life when something feels significant. You start exercising. You become deeply motivated. You begin reading. You change your lifestyle. You enter a new relationship. You discover spirituality. You …
When Her Wounds Become Weapons: Loving a Woman Who Has Been Hurt When a man enters a relationship with a woman who has been abused, traumatised, manipulated, rejected, abandoned or thrown away, he needs to understand that he may not simply be entering a relationship with a person. He may also be entering a relationship …
How Should a Man Treat a Widow Who Has Been Deeply Wounded? There is a profound difference between understanding a woman’s wounds and excusing her behaviour. When a man enters a relationship with a widow, he may not simply be entering a relationship with one woman and her present circumstances. He may be entering a …
When the Man Is Gone but the Relationship Is Still Living Inside Her The hidden warning about entering a relationship with a widow who has not healed There is a warning about relationships with widows that we don’t talk about enough. And this isn’t a warning against widows. It is a warning about unhealed grief, …
The Difference Between Being Loved and Being Convenient There is a big difference between being loved and being kept around. There is another big difference between being valued and being accessed when it is convenient. Sometimes those differences are difficult to see because the relationship may still contain affection, intimacy, beautiful moments, words of love, …
What Would You Change Today? Imagine reaching the end of your life. Everything is finished. The conversations have ended. The opportunities are gone. The relationships have run their course. The choices have been made. And then, standing completely exposed before the Divine, you hear: “I know you. I know everything about you. You are completely …
If You Don’t Let the Past Die, It Won’t Let You Live There is a powerful idea often expressed in the words: “If you do not let the past die, it will not let you live.” Although this quote is commonly attributed to Buddha, that attribution is not reliably sourced. Regardless of its origin, the …